Petak, Novembar 27, 2009
MLADI I BRAK
Poznat je problem zadnjih godina da mladi eskiviraju ili odbijaju brak u potpunosti. Kao što znate strast je priroda svakog od nas, pa kada saberemo dva i dva često dobijemo... svi već znamo i kakve neželjene posledice.
Danas se velika većina brakova mladih ljudi kod nas sklapa tek kada devojka ostane u drugom stanju. Na opštu žalost ova pojava je sve češća kod maloletnika i mlađih punoletnih lica.
Šta bi upšte bio razlog ovog straha ili nekad čak i averzije mladih prema braku?
Jednan od odgovora jeste sigurno nemogućnost rešavanja stambenog pitanja koje potpuno sprečava ili značajno usporava mlade u donošenju odluke o zasnivanju porodice, što utiče na natalitet tako kako utiče, kao i masovan odlazak visokoobrazovanih mladih kadrova u inostranstvo. Osim ovoga tu je naravno i želja mladih da žive „slobodni” što je to duže moguće i na neki način izbegavanje preuzimanja te neke elementarne odgovornosti vezane za brak i porodicu.
Ali glavno pitanje je zašto i ti sklopljeni brakovi, da kažemo hrabrih mladih ljudi češće ili ređe brzo propadaju?
Možda je razlog tome taj što uđu u brak nespremni. Fizički su spremni, ali psihički jednostavno nisu zreli za instituciju braka, sa svim obavezama i odgovornostima, i smatram da zato ti brakovi pucaju. Naravno, postoji mnogo razloga zašto se mladi razvode, a teška ekonomska situacija i različito shvatanje braka samo su neki od njih.
Na kraju, šta je uopšte potrbno da bi jedan „mladi” brak opstao?
Po meni lično najvažnije je u njemu imati mir (svar koja se danas tako teško stiče, a tako lako gubi).
Naravno tu je i neizostavna ljubav na kojoj bi brak trebalo da se temelji, jer ukoliko toga nema, uzalud su sve teorije najcenjenijih stručnjaka i bračnih savetnika o opstanku braka putem tolerancije, kompromisa i sl.
Svakako, bez obzira na sve bićete srećni onoliko koliko umete da kontrolišete svoje želje i preterana očekivanja, jer brak danas nije nikakva romantična zajednica lišena iskušenja, uspona i padova.
Sve je to tacno sto si naveo.Ja licno mislim se danas "decom" smatraju i ljudi od 30 godina pa i vise posto vecina njih zivi sa roditeljima. Ukoliko neko ne moze da se osamostali do tih godina, na primer, ne vidim nikakvu sansu da je spreman za bracni zivot i odgovornosti koje brak nosi sa sobom. Danas su svi previse opusteni i neverovatno cene svoju slobodu :)
Svi smo mi deca u srcu i dusi. Jednostavno je potrebno vise razumevanja..
Verni bosanac! :-)
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8LZ6p1uUJdQ
u subotu, zenicu se ja!
Zenim se, zenim se
stare cu cure rasterati sve
vjerni Balkanac, to sam ja
AL ZA SVAKI SLUCAJ VEZITE ME LANCIMA!hehe
Mladi ne ulaze u brak jer prvo zele da se profesionalno dokazu i pokazu i zureci da ispune sve zacrtane ciljeve zapostavljaju tu činjenicu, jer za to ima vremena to je obicno izgovor!!!
Mislim da većina brakova propada tako brzo jer se i u njih upušta isto tako brzo - preko stomaka. Bitno da se napravi svadba od 500-600 zvanica, da se proveseli, a onda kud koji mili moji...vreme je da se razilazimo :)
:D
necu zenu, necu brak, ja sam momak, veseljak!!! ijujuju ju :D
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